Geez.. I have been bz lately.First, I was busy preparing for PTK. I dont want to sit the exam without refreshing my knowledge. I have been sitting for this exam since 2004!! I was the first batch to sit for the PTK. The others (like the juniors) - some even had completed all the exam levels. So yesterday, I sat for the exam hoping that I would finally pass the exam. Oh well..
And today I've been very bz helping Mum cleaning the house as tomorrow YB Datuk Patinggi Tan Sri Dr. Alfred Jabu ak Numpang, Sarawak's Deputy Minister will come to our house. Actually, he is visiting the village (my parents' place)..so our house has been chosen as the place for gathering. My Dad does not really into politics but he is one of the Ketua Masyarakat.
Today, I was the driver-oh not for Dr Jabu of course- but I drove my Dad to fetch this,do that and such.Kind a tired...
So I am not going to write longer as I am kind a sleepy now but I'll definitely report the event tomorrow.
It's not like everyday VVIP comes and visits u,let alone will hv lunch at ur home!
Adios!
Friday, August 28, 2009
Busy..busy..busy...
Posted by Doria Robert Kawen at 9:04 PM 0 comments
Monday, August 24, 2009
Chicken Korma..anyone?
Declan and I have been staying at home these few days.It gives me time to study for PTK. Ramadan has started and I can see the Raya mood is around. Declan was browsing my recipe book one day when he suddenly pointed a picture of chicken kurma and told me he wanted me to cook it. Wha..? He insisted and I started to hate the temper..so off we went to buy chicken meat, kurma powder and such. So..this is my very own chicken kurma:
And of course, my little food critic:
Hopefully he wont ask me to make him quiche cause my oven dah rosak dahhhh:(
Posted by Doria Robert Kawen at 8:30 PM 6 comments
Friday, August 21, 2009
For Our Children..
I dedicate this beautiful poem to all parents out there!
by Dr. A.D. Witham.
Pause with your child-when others hurry by;
Walk with your child-when others are running;
Talk with your child-when others prefer shouting;
Listen to our child-when others appear preoccupied;
Smile with your child-when others can find only frowns;
Play with your child-when others prefer to be entertained;
Praise your child-when others can find only fault;
Learn from your child-when others have forsaken curiorsity;
Dream with your child-when others have become cynical;
Read with your child-when others prefer television;
Pray with your child-when others have lost faith;
Apologize to your child-when others pretend perfection;
Discipline your child-when others fail to establish limits;
Hug your child-when others fail to sense the power of touch!
Let's love our children and be thankful to God for He has given us the best gift of all!
Agreee?
Posted by Doria Robert Kawen at 2:35 PM 4 comments
Thursday, August 20, 2009
Marking, holidays and damn PTK!
It's exam week and I've been busy marking papers. I need to finish reading and marking the essays within this week (if possible) so I can study for PTK. Not really study but at least just to read few facts. In case u wondering what is PTK(Penilaian Tahap Kecekapan), it is an exam for government servants. I hate this exam so much but what to do..have to pass so u can go the next level. For me, this exam does not really assess ur achievement. Let's say.. I am not that good in memorizing facts but I am good in teaching. My students always achieve well in their exam,but because I am not able to get Level 4(the highest level)so that means I am not a good teacher. Well?
That is the main reason I hate PTK so much. It somehow makes me feel like a dumb because it seems that everyone is able to get Level 4 but not me...why..why..why...
Oh forget about that PTK.
Holiday is coming. No plan to go to Kuching because it is only a week and I have to sit for the PTK..I guess I'll spend the holiday at home. Have to stay at home btw since the pandemic is still around.
Now, need to focus on marking and reading the essays make me dizzy..
P.S. Hey..anyone love to share their tips for getting Level 4? I guess I need the help!!
Posted by Doria Robert Kawen at 2:48 PM 0 comments
Monday, August 17, 2009
It's getting worse...
When I read the online news this morning, I suddenly felt afraid. Afraid of the H1N1 virus..it is spreading widely and so far 62 Malaysians lost their life due to the virus. The Minister of Health announced yesterday that 20% of Malaysians would get the virus if we still be in a state of ignorance.
It makes me think..oh dear,what is happening? My son...is he Ok in the school now? I forgot to give him the face mask today..oh dear..oh dear..and suddenly I feel so afraid..so afraid...I know I may sound silly but with the spreading of the pandemic in the state..I keep asking myself..do I have enough protection? Have I protected my son the correct way? How about my family?
The school is doing a good job. Our Senior Assistant of Students' Affair has been giving us lots of information regarding the virus and the school has been distributing face masks to the students and the teachers too. However, it is sad to see that some students as well as the teachers refuse to wear the face masks. I know, wearing the face mask will make u look silly.But once u get the virus..would u be thinking of looking silly?? I dont know. It is suffocating..I've been huffing and puffing ..but hey..this is for protection,OK. I know I do look like a freak or a paranoid, and some even laugh at me..I just dont care.
Asking Declan to wear one is also a big challenge for me. He would take it off saying that he could not breathe lah, he looks like a ninja lah and thousands excuses. But being a loving Mum, I told him the importance of wearing the face mask.
In my opinion, I think the Ministry of Education and Ministry of Health should distribute free face masks to all kindergartens. I did not see Declan's teachers and other students wear one. And that's the real reason why Declan refuse to wear one because he would look silly since no one is wearing it.
I guess the coming school holiday is for us to quarantine ourselves at home and for me,I'll be spending lots of quality time with Declan.
And please everyone, be aware of the virus and keep ourselves clean and healthy.
Let's stop the spreading of the virus!!
Posted by Doria Robert Kawen at 8:49 AM 3 comments
Friday, August 14, 2009
The Blog and the blogger..
Ahhh..what a nice cup of tea and having really nice fresh corns..and also typing at the same time. Blogging? Yeah..I cant believe it that I had written 108 posts. At first, I have no idea what is a blog. The first blog I read was Audrey's..and when reading her posts,I was like..hey this is interesting. So I search the web to find information on blogging. I decided to start a blog and promised to try my very best to update my blogs.
Once, a friend of mine told me that blogging is only for those who do not have anything to do..and I was like"Huh?" Ok..that is rude..as if I dont hv things to do.Helloooo.....When I told him that I do have a blog and enjoying reading others blog-he was red-faced.
Personally I think everyone should have a blog. It is not like writing a diary where u will hide it so no one can read.(I used to have one and still hide it). Sharing stories with your friends is not a sin. I read Eugene's blog yesterday and I laughed when his friends think that blogging is only for the younger generation.
I love reading my friends' blogs..somehow it strengthens the bond between us.
Fely is writing on her enjoyable motherhood, Peng Peng with her jobs, passion and the yellow bus (hehehe), Audrey with her interesting family, cute babies and hunky hubby, Betty with her children, love and mommyhood, Beatrice with her life in the UK and Miss Mathew with her experiences as an active globetrotter!
And recently, joining the group is Ashley and being a Mum and wife like most of us, she shares of her life and her precious son.
Blogging is not a sin and it does not mean I have nothing to do. In fact, sometimes I do feel like a freelance reporter (hehehe) cause I always look for things to write.Hahahaha!!
How about you, friend?
Posted by Doria Robert Kawen at 8:56 PM 5 comments
Thursday, August 13, 2009
Sighting of a Cross..
My aunt called us yesterday, she claimed to see a cross appeared on coconut leaves. So, being a believer,and a Christian, I went to the site today with the whole family.
Well, as I looked up to the leaves, this is what I saw:
Not sure about you, but I do see a cross.
What do you think?
Posted by Doria Robert Kawen at 9:27 PM 4 comments
Tuesday, August 11, 2009
Iban traditional costume
Fely asked me to describe the Iban traditional costume that I wear in my Fb. I'll try my very best,k to describe it..
Here goes:
Ok..first of all..is sugu tinggi (headdress)-made from silver but now it is made from aluminium,so it wont be too heavy. U need to make ur hair into a bun so u can wear it. The colourful beads around the neck and shoulder is tangguk. U need lots of patience to make it. Now,of course, u can buy it any where in the handicraft centres. Next, the colourful cloth wrapped around *ahem* the breast, is selampai. It is made from threads and it is woven. Then, the super heavy silver belt, it is called lampit. Why it is heavy?well, it is made from coins (they are joined together) and it is quite long. The woven 'skirt' is called kain tenun. The one that I wear does not have tating (they are coins plus small bells) and they are super heavy too! You need to wear the gelang tangan (bracelets -six on each of ur hands) and also need to wear one each on ur upper arm. Then, the gelang kaki (anklet) too. Actually there is one missing - buah pauh. ( two of them. I'll try find the pic.Dunno how to describe leh). But you see, now, many people use different types of accessories to add to the costume itself. For example, some would wear silver earrings, necklaces and such. And guess what, the costume is damn heavy!! And for your information, my Mum made the tangguk, selampai and kain tenun. Now, I do have the full set which I bought from Lubok Antu. As for men, they do have different costumes. Many men dislike to wear the cawat (loin cloth) anymore so they opt for long trousers and they would wear the vest, decorated with colourful beads and beautiful designs.
I rarely wear the costume, errh,like for what?During Gawai celebration, we basically just wear sth nice but if u are one of the dancers or involved in protocol (like waiting for the arrival of the guests)u need to wear it -but this only happens in villages or long houses and definitely not in the town.
I did not wear the costume during my wedding-sth I regret now-and I should have. The Ibans used to wear the traditional costume during their wedding at the long house. They would be sitting on the gongs (imagine that!) and there are lots of rituals to follow. But I guess, in this modern era, the Ibans wear the costumes for certain occasions.
Some Ibans never wear it.(Trust me, I know some who dont want to wear the costume)..jatuh standard mah. Hey,once an Iban..you are an Iban forever,cannot change the fact. Some Ibans refuse to speak in Iban language, even their children dont know how to converse in Iban because their parents never speak Iban. I realize the importance of English Language,but to lose ur own heritage? I always encourage Declan to master the three languages- Iban, Bidayuh and English. It's nothing to lose.
Oh well, some people have different views. I am proud to be an Iban, the largest ethnic in Sarawak!
Ok then, mupuk dulu aku (got to go now)!
Posted by Doria Robert Kawen at 10:40 AM 8 comments
Monday, August 10, 2009
School session starts tomorrow..finally!!
After spending 2 weeks at home,finally tomorrow sch session will start again. Hopefully the students are OK and no more cases of high fever and such. And the exam will start 2moro too!
Hmmm....2 weeks of break:how did I spend it? Well...every day I will send Declan and his cousins to school. Then, I'll help Mom around-sweeping, do the laundry and cooking. I am the real housewife during that 2 weeks. It is tiring..and stressing too. Imagine-after finishing all the necessary chores, I have to rush to pick them up from their school. Then, after lunch, I have to monitor them doing their homework. After that, running and chasing them to go to sleep. Then...I have time to rest. Mom and Dad went to the farm almost everyday that 2 weeks. So I am the one who control the kids. OMG..not an easy job..salute to my Mom for babysitting my son.
I would be shouting and holding my 'rotan ajaib' so they will not jumping, shouting or make any stupid actions!
When I told Declan that I am going to work 2moro,he was devastated. "I thought u quit working,"was his response. Declan oh Declan!
I still remember when he told ppl that I am a salesgirl. When he was 4 yrs old and started schooling, then he knows that I am a teacher.
Oh well, sch reopens 2moro and I need to wake up early tomorrow.
So, gud nite frens!
Posted by Doria Robert Kawen at 8:18 PM 6 comments
Saturday, August 8, 2009
Ciggie any one??
Ok..first of all I was unhappy to see Declan's cousins bought sweets from the shop. And then, when I saw the candy,I was shocked!Guess what??
See for urself...
Smoke candy?I repeat smoke candy? When I opened the box, I could not believe my eyes! The candy looks exactly like cigarettes!
And the most shocking of all:
Just look at his action!
I decided to ban this candy-a no no for them. He showed me the way he puffed and huffed the "ciggie"..I was like...OMG!!!
The government should do sth abt this imitation! I dont think it's funny or a fun way to enjoy ur candy.
Imagine-he is just 6 yrs old and he knows about puffing a cigarette!!
Arghhhhh!
Posted by Doria Robert Kawen at 8:39 PM 3 comments
Friday, August 7, 2009
Friends..Friends..
Fely and Beatrice talk abt friendship on their blogs. It makes me think..yaaa...where are my good friends??
There are five of us. Lily, Flora, Serina, Tina and me. All of us were living in the police barracks since our dads are policeman. We enjoyed school so much. Though we were not in the same class, we were closed. Every morning, before the class started, we would be playing 'police and thief' and also that famous 'zero point'. We played netball and hockey since Standard 4 until Form 5. We joined the church choir. We loved to 'melepak' at the-once-famous Wisma Pelita and window shopping. Favourite acitivities: gossiping and 'mengulam'.
Then, everything changed. We went our own way after SPM. Lily went to Matrix, I went for Form 6, and Serina went to teacher's college.Flora- the youngest one-attending Kolej Hj. Bujang. And Tina,being not fortunate to further her studies-just stayed at home.
Of course- we did not have handphones that time. When our fathers retired, we did not see each other anymore.
10 years after that, we finally met. Everyone looked different. Lily got married with 2 children, Serina and Flora converted to Islam, and Tina is working somewhere in Kuching. It was a great reunion! Unfortunately, we tend to forget each other.
Aha..thanks to the fab FB..hey...we found each other. Great huh? Not only that, from FB, I managed to find all my school mates and college mates!I thought no one remembers me but I guess I was wrong!And now..we can share stories and pictures.
I found new friends too. I met the two carols-remember them?-Carrol Ho and Carole Matthew. We shared so many stories and experience together. and I am so proud that they are still my best friends and hopefully the bond will become stronger every day.
Hey-not mentioning other college mates-like Audrey (paling popular kat MPIK and pengurus mencari kerja di UK.hehehe), Peng Peng (she helps me a lot when she was in Miri and I always envy her straight hair), Ashley (she used to ask me about my long toenails), Nina (the soft-spoken one and my best partner in vacuuming..hehehe), Rosfida(she is a kind person and sometimes a mysterious one), Leen, Beatrice (many people told me that she is a very very serious person-which I dont think so), Fely (she likes my name and love her smile), Eton (partner in crime yg dah hilang), Megat (entah ke mana?), Fidelia and Betty (the best sabahans I've ever met), Sheri and Anu (they love to bully Douglas and they were the one yg memulakan mencalonkan aku untuk jadi class monitor!), Kak Maz, Kak Ita (tukang nasihat kategori rohani), Siti Rafiah (penyokong setia untuk kategori gila2), Jessy (ke mana dia ni ha?), Faith (kaki kelentong)...oh the list!! I just love B.Ed TESL!!!
Arent friends are the best things in our life?
To those who refuse to have friends..u are missing the best gift in your life. I do believe there are friends who really care and love you..and also friends who will be ur shoulder to cry on.
Guess what?I love you my friend!!
Posted by Doria Robert Kawen at 3:02 PM 8 comments
Wednesday, August 5, 2009
Hai Ubat Oh Ubat!
My phone alarm will be beeping every 8pm and Declan would be shouting.."Mummy..makan ubat cepat!".He would bring my medicine and his cousin Athanasius will bring me a glass of water. Then I'll be smiling..gosh..cant believe I am popping pills for my high blood.
As my aunt said,once she learnt that I have high blood,"Oii..u are too young lah."
I guess what she says is true. I am just 33 (still young and beautiful;)..) and now am suffering with this sickness. That's what I get because adoring hawker's food! (That's my own perception).
When I browse the Net, I found out that even children can get high blood pressure. There is one case where an eight year old boy from China suffers high blood pressure and is diabetic! His weight is around 70kg! I showed the picture to Declan and he's like so.."Why he is so fat? What did he eat?" When I told him KFC..he looked at me.."cannot be lah maa...chicken is so delicious."Hehehe...my Declan..but then I always watch what he eats. No sweets, no regular ice-creams and snacks. I want him to be fit and healthy. I dont want him to grow as an obese.
Oh well, back to my ubat..hahha..I always have problem to swallow medicine esp pills. Though the pill is small , sometimes it just pop back! Haiya.That's why I prefer to take liquid.
Have to take 1 pill a day..
So I have a month to take the pills.Then, I'll meet the doc again to check my pressure. Hopefully, the pressure will be normal. Until then, I'll just keep popping the pills! Oh dear!
Posted by Doria Robert Kawen at 8:00 PM 4 comments
Tuesday, August 4, 2009
El Nino is here!
Gosh!What a day today!
It was scorching hot and not a comfortable day at all.
In the newspaper today, it is said that a phenomenon called El Nino is coming to hit Miri. Many parts of Swak have been affected by El Nino. In Mukah, 6062 people from 1019 families face water shortage due to the present dry weather. It is also said the rainfall amount in Swak could drop 20 to 40% below normal and the present dry weather could go on until end of September or early October.
Imagine...going to school in this kind of weather..and H1N1 is around...my goodness! I went to school today to take some of my books and scanner and I was shocked to hear that sometimes the school has problem with the water supply. I cannot imagine how the hostel students clean themselves.They are still being quarantine and of course-it is going to be hard to stay in the hostel without water supply.
The air in Miri is now in an unhealthy condition. Those who have asthma need to be careful. Open burning is still going on. The heat is unbearable..and u have to inhale the smoke and it is suffocating. I am worried as I do believe the H1N1 virus will be spreading fast because of the dry season. Let's hope the rain will come!
Posted by Doria Robert Kawen at 8:41 PM 1 comments
Monday, August 3, 2009
2 Weeks holiday??
I am actually looking forward to attend sch sooner.Unfortunately, the school is closed for another week.The school will start on the 11th.Wow! I just dont know how to react,but I guess it's Ok..so I can have a good rest. But then,thinking back..the exam is supposed to start on the 13th. and the school reopens on 11th..haiyooo..I dont know how the sch will manage the time. Hopefully (fingers crossed) the students are doing their revisions especially Form 3,5 and 6. But knowing the students-I dont think so.They must be jumping happily and merempit, melepak sambil eating durians, playing guitars and simply just watching TV 24-7.
They still cannot see the importance of education. I am not being biased, but sadly to say, the students in the rural areas still dont bother to have better education. They always think that their parents will support them. There are many cases where the students got married too young,then after a year and so, they divorced. Then their parents will suffer. There are quite a number of them who never know their own parents. Sigh.
But then, in my school, many students now,especially those in Form 6 are successful and many of them have successfully entered local universities. Thanks to all our programmes for Form 6 students. I do believe, the rural students are equally good with the students in the town areas.
I guess I'll just have a good long break and at the same time preparing the exam papers.
Oh dear!
Posted by Doria Robert Kawen at 9:37 PM 3 comments
Sunday, August 2, 2009
The Diet begins
Aha..so the diet regime begins again. So today I started my morning with a glass of warm water. After church service, we went for breakfast as usual. I usually have mee kolok or fried noodles but today I chose tofu soup. Declan started to ask a lot of questions like "Why dont u order mee kolok?" "Why do you order the soup?" "Delicious ka mama?" "Wah..so many vege lah."..and so on.
"Oh well..mama has to eat lots of vege.The doc asked me to." Silence. Good, now I can have my soup but noooo..he still wonders why.."I dont like ur doctor,ma." Huh? "He will ask me to eat lots of vege if I go and see him." Smile. Kids.
And for lunch, I had vege soup and two tablespoon of rice. Felt nice after that. And for dinner, I just had two crackers with warm milk.And to my surprise, I love it. I did not feel hungry like before.
I used to have this kind of plan before,but then after giving birth to Declan,I put on weight..around 10kgs!Then I managed to lose around 9kg last year and I should have continue with my diet..hmm..I guess my love for food has failed me again:(
and now..and finally-nah-i am diagnosed with high blood pressure! I dont blame the food 100% but pressures and stress too. I dont have time to go for exercise not even try to brisk walking. Sometimes I feel burn out.Too tired to spend time to exercise.
Hopefully, I will get the transfer and be with my husband. We usually love to jog.So this time..I'll go for aerobic class, he will be the babysitter.Hahaha!
Pray for me,friends!Thanks for ur advice too!
Posted by Doria Robert Kawen at 8:57 PM 6 comments
Saturday, August 1, 2009
High Blood Pressure!
I've been in a misery week..headache..sweating and shaking...It's all started since last saturday. Suddenly I had a terrible headache.It felt like punching my brain. I started to sweat..and my heart beat faster..then started to take paracetamol (panadol) almost everyday.
so today, I decided to meet the doctor. I went to see Dr. Lee Fui Jin.He checked my pulse and so on..and told me that I indeed have a high blood pressure..and it is quite high..164/98. My sis said the normal pressure would be below 140/90. See..mine?aiyoooo..so the doc told me to watch my diet,less meat, more vege and fruits..and the list goes on...
and now I am taking the pills..cant believe it though..I guess it's time to cut all the calories..hehehe..
I always have this weight issue..I dont know why it's so difficult for me to lose some weight.I've tried last year, and I had lost around 9kg.wow!then i tried again but i dont know why it seems that i did not lose any weight.
I guess I really have plan my diet carefully again and lose more weight!
Friends,any tips??
Posted by Doria Robert Kawen at 8:56 PM 5 comments

